Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Wed., August 31st - Finally Home

Yesterday's discharge got delayed to the evening. Mama didn't get her discharge until just before 8pm. The final decision to come home without the TPN was made by Mama and Daddy. It wasn't an easy decision to make. While the IV nutrition was helping to give her the needed nutrition, it also was creating other difficulties. The TPN kept her getting up throughout the night because of all the added fluids, which robbed her of sleep and she was exhausted. It also suppressed her diet because she was feeling full so she didn't feel she had much room to eat. The hospital foods were less than desirable so that also became a challenge. Mama felt if she could get home without the TPN, she would be able to get rest and eat better. At home she would be able to sleep all night without the interruptions of getting up all night long as well as hospital staff waking her up to do vitals. As far as eating goes, she was looking forward to eating things she enjoys and more of a variety.
We got her home by about 9:30pm last night. By the time we got her clothes changed and settled into bed, she was "all in but her shoestrings". :) She was so relieved to get into her own bed where she is finally comfortable.
This morning and afternoon, she is doing pretty well eating and drinking. The 1,000 calorie goal is still an effort, but she is really working at getting it in by the end of the day. She is on track and should make it. So far, she is doing well at keeping everything down and not throwing up. This whole food and fluids things is a real big hurdle to get over so she doesn't have to be readmitting into the hospital, so we would appreciate your prayers regarding this especially.
Our friend Cindi (who is a nurse) came over and helped Dad sort through the medications and get them on a schedule. That was a task and somewhat overwhelming. Thank you so much Cindi. You are a blessing.
Mama has had several visitors today. She enjoyed getting to visit and was feeling so blessed. She had been up since this morning and it doesn't take much to wipe her out these days, so she is back in bed to get some more sleep and recharge her batteries. Daddy is taking this quiet time to also sneak in a nap himself.
It is so good to be home again. Thank you for your encouragement and prayers. The Bible says we are to bear one another's burdens and then in Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 says, "Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, one will lift up his companion. But woe to him who is alone when he falls, for he has no one to help him up." Thank you for coming up beside Mama and our family. For bearing our burdens and lifting us up when we most need it. Your words of encouragement and your answered prayers have picked us up over and over. Thank you.
With love,
Carmen & family

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

PTL you all are home. That is wonderful news. Would love to come see Ladeva but will wait a couple of weeks and allow her to catch up on some much needed sleep and rest. May God grant you godspeed with the healing and good health again. Love to you, Di Iund

Anonymous said...

So happy to hear you are finally home! What an adventure you've been on! The kids have frequently been asking about your updates and will be glad you have made it home. Would love a visit when you are up to crazy little me being there... Carmen, let me know when might work.
Love you all!
Amy Spencer & Family

Anonymous said...

Glad to hear that you are home. I hope the blogs keep coming, I'll refrain from calling, I know you need to rest. Please let me know when you need my help again. You know I will do anything. You know I have cooked, cleaned, driven you to appointments, and I can be quiet while you rest...so you just let me know when you need me...that's what friends do. :-) I'm only a phone call away.
Love you sweet girl,
Cindy R.

Anonymous said...

Hey sister,
Rest, Eat and be Healed!!!!!!
WISHING YOU JOY AND LAUGHTER EVERY DAY.. THAT IS GREAT MEDICINE!!!
I LUVVA, LUVVA,LUVVA YOU DEE!!!
djkz

Anonymous said...

HELLO DEAR SISTER, SO GLAD YOU GOT HOME. PRAYING FOR YOU AND WARREN ALSO TO GET REST. I AM WANTING TO SEE YOU WHEN I CAN. I WILL CALL FIRST, TO SEE IF YOU ARE UP TO IT.PRAYING THAT YOU HAVE ANOTHER GOOD NIGHT AND A BETTER TOMORROW. WE LOVE YOU ALL.
YOUR BROTHER AND HIS WIFE , FROG AND JAN

Anonymous said...

Hello Duckie,
Joy...joy...joy. You are home.
Your sisters advice is the best!
REST, EAT AND BE HEALED.
Three steps forward, and some days will be one step back. That's ok.
We are beyond happy and right there with you.
See you when convenient.
Lots of love to you all and thanks a million for this blog. It has been wonderful.
Love and hugs,
jeanzie
ps: My last entry as I too go to Centralia tonight.

Anonymous said...

Great News,we really want to see you, but we want for you to get all the rest you can, so we will wait and pray for your strength to return. We are praying For your appetite to increase, wish we could trade on that "one"!! If you every need me/us/or Ken, to do anything please ask, you too Carmen. Praising God with YOU
linda&Ken

Anonymous said...

Deva, it was so good to talk to you
this morning. I'm praying for the
nausia to cease. Dear Lord, please
let that tummy function properly.
Give Deva a good report tomorrow when she sees the doctor in Seattle. Being home is so wonderful. There's nothing like a
person's own bed. Please do a
miracle Lord and let the healing
process proceed unabated. You are
the same Lord who healed the blind
made the lame walk and raised the
dead. Many are watching and praying
and waiting for You to show the
onlookers that You are God. Encourage yourself in the Lord
dear sister. Find refuge and comfort in Him. Love Dino

Anonymous said...

I am thinking of you. And again...so glad you are home. May your day be filled with blessings.
Love you!
Cindy R.