Monday, May 5, 2008

One round done

Today has been a full day for Mom.
She had started having a reaction to one of the anti-nausea medications. She would get very flushed, shake and tremble and when she would get up, be very unsteady and nearly fall. Fortunately, Dad doesn’t let her walk without him so he was there to catch her.
There was another choice of medications that worked for her but Mom really hated it because it sedates her heavily and she can’t get fully awake. But, since the other medication was having such horrible side effects, the Dr. told her he would much rather she had the sleepiness than the negative side effects, so she is back to the medication that reduces the nausea without the awful side effects and she sleeps through a lot of it.
She will be coming off the chemo around midnight tonight. She will then have an additional 12 hours that they will flush out her system with i.v. fluids.
The latest news is that the screen filter that was placed early on after the initial biopsy must come out tomorrow. They said it is a filter that is no longer needed and there is a small window of time in which it can stay in. If it goes past that window of time then it cannot be removed and will stay in the rest of her life. This could cause complications for her down the road, so they will take her back in to remove it tomorrow. When it was put in they did not have i.v. access, and you may remember they had to access through her jugular vein. Now they have the port so we are praying it will be less complicated and less painful to remove than it was to place.
They will keep her overnight again to observe and monitor her. Hopefully all will go well and she will be discharged Wednesday morning. She will then need to go to the Seattle Cancer Care Alliance for a shot that will boost her immunity. It’s crazy that she can’t get it at the hospital, but I guess the insurance won’t pay for it if she is at the hospital. I know. Crazy. But, that’s the truth. So, she will have another stop to make before she gets to go home. Then, on home. I will be going up in the morning and stay the night at the hospital and help Dad get Mom to get all their belongings loaded up in the car and to get home. (Thank you to those of you who prayed for me to get over this cold. I was told to expect 10 days. It got knocked out in 5! Thank you!) Carmen will be at the house when they get home to help. Troy, Carmen and Maria are over at the house tonight getting the house spruced up and their yard looking pretty. Thank you Carm, TT and Ria! That will be so nice for them when they pull in. (I bet the rug rats are helping too!)
We will keep you posted on how she does over the next 48 hours. Please pray for her as she finishes this first cycle of chemo and gets the filter removed tomorrow. Since everything has had its own set of complications, I would ask that you pray specifically that everything go as planned tomorrow.
I know it sounds crazy to be happy for midnight and the end of chemo, but it is just another giant down. We are so proud of Mom and Daddy as they have faced this unified, and with such bravery and strength. Come Wednesday they have been in the hospital 27 days. A far cry from the “overnight” we thought it would be, but God knew they would be there that long and He has provided for every tangible need they have had. He is faithful.
We as a family, thank you again for your constant prayer, loving cards, calls, words of encouragement and blog postings. We read them to Mom and Dad daily. They are a sweet connection to outside of those four walls.

With love and gratitude,
Kimberly

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

SO SIS,
HERE'S THE DEAL..........I STAYED UP SO THAT I COULD WRITE TO YOU AT MIDNIGHT AS THAT IS WHEN THE FIRST ROUND OF CHEMO IS TO BE OVER, YEHAAAAAAAAA??? SO RIGHT ABOUT NOW THEY SHOULD BE THERE UNHOOKING YOU OR WHATEVER IT IS THAT THEY DO TO STOP IT.
SO I GUESS THAT WE CAN CELEBRATE , ONE DOWN!!!
I WAS SORRY TO HEAR THAT YOU HAD HAD A ROUGH DAY DEE, WITH THE ALLERGIC REACTION TO THE MEDS. NOT A FUN THING. NOPE. NOT FUN AT ALL.
OK LOVEY SO HANG IN THERE, YOU ARE MOVING THRU IT AND THERE IS NO OTHER STINKIN WAY AROUND IT BUT TO GO RIGHT THRU THE MIDDLE OF IT. AND YOU ARE DOING IT!!! AND YOU WILL COME OUT ON THE OTHER SIDE!!!!
STRONGER AND GOOD TO GO AND THEN WE WILl CELELBRATE SOME MORE. LIKE BIG TIME!!
THOUGHT OF YOU SO MANY TIMES TODAY AND SENT UP A PRAYER WITH YOUR NAME ON IT EVERY TIME I THINK OF YOU.
WILL BE IN TOUCH. I CALLED TONIGHT BUT YOU WERE OUT!!! NOT AS IN OUT TO DINNER THO:) OUT, AS IN LIGHTS OUT!
OK SO IT IS NOW AFTER MIDNIGHT AND HOPEFULLY ROUND ONE IS OVER!!!
I LOVE YOU DARLIN. MAY GOD BLESS YOUR HEART EVEN IN THE MIDST OF THIS TURMOIL AND PAIN.
I AM PROUD OF YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. THEY ROCK!!YEAH I KNOW. IT'S FAMILY
BUSINESS:)
I LOVE YOU HONEY!
djkz

Anonymous said...

DEAR DEV:
I AM SO HAPPY THAT YOU ARE OFF OF YOUR FIRST ROUND AND WILL BE ABLE TO COME HOME FOR A WHILE. I WON'T RUSH RIGHT IN, BUT IF YOU NEED SOMEONE, WHEN THE KIDS AND WARREN HAS TO GO BACK TO WORK........ I AM FREE TO COME IN AND STAY WITH YOU. WE CAN NAP TOGETHER :)WE WILL CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR YOU, EVERY TIME WE THINK OF YOU.
I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH........ EDDIE

Niki said...

We will be praying for no complications so you can go home tomorrow! The phrase "There is no place like home" I'm sure will be true. God Bless you Ladeva!

The Scotts
Colorado Springs