Friday, September 9, 2011

Friday, Sept.9th

This week, the struggle to eat and hold food down has continued to be Mama’s biggest battle. She works daily at her goal of getting 1,000 calories down. Daddy has been trying all different combinations of soft high calorie foods and shakes to help her reach her goal. The dry heaves continue each day which keeps Mama’s abdomen really sore.

On a positive note, Mama is getting stronger. She no longer is using a walker. Her fluid retention in her legs has gone down now that she no longer is on IV fluids. Therefore her legs are no longer so tender and miserable. The majority of her food is staying down. She is enjoying being in the comfort of her own home and is getting some good rest and sleep at night.

We went to her follow appointment with Dr. Pillarisetty today at Seattle Cancer Care. He was encouraged by her progress. Of course, the problem of nausea was the main topic discussed to find some kind of solution. He gave some additional suggestions for her to try. He also agreed that the anti-nausea medication Mama has been taking for the last couple of months is no longer proving to be effective. Mama has decided to go back and try another anti-nausea medication that caused some unpleasant side effects during her chemo treatments. Maybe this time around it may not have the same effects or at the very least, the side effects may be worth not being so sick and getting to eat and drink easier.

Thank you for continuing to keep Mama in your prayers. Please continue to lift Daddy up in prayer also. Taking care of Mama and watching her be sick day in and day out and being so helpless at times is so difficult. He has been a rock for her to lean on. Pray that he will have strength and peace for each new day so that he will remain that strong rock and will not grow weary.

Thank you also for your encouragement in so many ways. We appreciate you so much.

With love,

Carmen & family

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Thank you so much for your post. I thought about her all day yesterday, knowing she had her doctor's appointment. Tuesday when I was there with her for the day...I knew the nausea might put her back into the hospital. Everyone tried to bring her things that would be pleasing to eat. She was trying so hard to reach her 1000 calorie goal. But it is so very difficult. Your mother pushes herself to gain strength. She has so many wonderful friends and family, and first and foremost, our loving God that hears our prayers for her.
I hope this new medication helps the nausea without side effects this time.
Love and Blessings,
Cindy R.

Anonymous said...

HEY THERE SISTER!!!!
I HAVE BEEN SO HAPPY ABOUT YOUR IMPROVEMENT DEE, I KNOW AT TIMES THAT IT SEEMS LIKE NOT ENOUGH AND NOT FAST ENOUGH BUT YOU ARE MAKING PROGRESS.. LITTLE BY LITTLE, BIT BY BIT, GETTING BETTER EACH DAY!! GOIN IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION!!!
I AM SO LOOKING FORWARD TO SEEING YOU NEXT WEEK.. OH YES I AM!!!!!
TELL THE MISTER THAT I AM LOOKING FORWARD TO SEEING HIS LITTLE FACE TOO...
LOVE TO ALL OF YOU AND PRAYING GOD'S BLESSINGS FOR YOU TODAY!!!!
KEEP ON KEEPIN ON GETTING BETTER SISTER!!!!
I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS ME!!! YES YOU CAN!!!
LOVE YA,
djkz

nancy rhoades said...

Hi Deva, you have been on my mind so much & in my prayers many times a day. I pray that this new medicine will work for your nausea.Thank you so much for your blog.God bless you & Warren & Family.
Love you, Nancy R.