Wednesday, October 8, 2008

Radiating rest.

Hi everyone,
Well, the rumors are true.
Mom is done with radiation as of last Thursday

Mom,Dad,Carmen and I, all went to Seattle Cancer Care Alliance yesterday (Tuesday) to see Dr. Conrad (Mom's orthopedic surgeon that will be removing the tumor) and Dr.Kelly (her radiation Dr. at SCCA). Her leg is really angry and is looking like someone poured a kettle full of boiling water over and around the top and backside of her thigh. The pain has intensified and walking is not fun as it touches and rubs against clothing and is so very tender. Dr.Kelly felt like the treatment went well and was pleased with the progress, yet not so pleased with Mom. SOMEHOW,(and I'm not saying exactly how it got out)it was communicated that Mom was not simply lying around "eating chocolates and watching movies" as Dr. Kelly had ordered her to do. Mom feels that when she isn't absolutely miserable, that her days need to be filled with her being "productive". Those of you who know her well, can attest to this. Dad, sat grinning and thanking the Dr. for the scolding Mom so deservedly received.

So, this is the Dr.'s orders to anyone who may go see Mom, or hear from Mom.
(because let's face it, she won't tell you these things)Sorry Mom, but you know I'm telling the truth.

Her job is to rest and keep her leg up and unclothed. Her leg is to be getting air and resting. She wants her to be eating chocolate and watching movies, and napping. Period. (I REALLY LIKED THIS DR.)

She reminded Mom that she actually has cancer and has been through a huge ordeal just thus far. She reminded her that radiation, let alone chemo, will take it out of her completely. She reminded her that she only has a month before she has another surgery coming up and that she will need every ounce of energy she has to heal from that. She reminded Mom that there is also the possibility that she will need two more rounds of chemo after the surgery and she needs to let her body spend it's energy on rebuilding her stamina.

I know it's hard for Mom to do, but if we don't stay on top of her she will try to conquer the world. They stopped on the way home and got some good movies and they stopped and picked up some RX'd chocolates as well. :) You know, Dr.'s orders and all.

Her surgery is scheduled for Thursday November the 6th in Seattle at UWMC.
She will have her pre op visit on Tuesday the 4th for scans and blood work etc.

We thank you all for your love and prayers for her. The Dr. that administered the radiation said the pain would be the worst for the next 7 -10 days. She got some additional pain killers so hopefully she will be more comfortable shortly.

Thank you for checking the blog so faithfully.
There may not be a lot to update over the next month, but we will try our best to get you news when it occurs. Feel free to call her as she's just going to be sitting at home healing. Right Mom?!

God bless~
Kimberly and family

8 comments:

Anonymous said...

HEY DEE,
WISH THAT I COULD BE THERE HELPING YOU DO ALL OF THOSE THINGS THAT THE DR HAS PRESCRIBED!!!! SOUNDS LIKE FUN TO ME!!! MOVIE TIME!!!
I KNOW THIS HAS BEEN A LONG HAUL FOR YOU AND THAT IT IS NOT OVER YET BUT AT LEAST THERE IS A LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL AND FOR THAT WE ARE THANKFUL.
HANG IN THERE. AND DO TRY TO DO WHAT YOU CAN TO R & R!
DARK CHOCOLATE IS BEST!!!! ha
I LOVE YOU SIS,
djkz

Anonymous said...

My Dahlin Deva,
Heed your sister's advice. She can come sit on you if you don't. I know it will be difficult to be still and rest, but your body needs this. So.............mind the Dr. and all your family and friends, because we will constantly be reminding you and scolding you if you don't behave. There, you've had your lecture. Let God do the work as he intends and you shall be a well woman in several months. What a journey, my dahlin' Deva!!!You have so much courage and have been a real testimonial for all of us. You are so fortunate to have such a loving family and ones who keep us filled in on your goings-on.
Our love for you is stronger than Hurricane Ike. You have the surge that matters. Let's get on with the show as Ethel Merman sang!!!!!!!
I love you Cousin!!!!!!!!!!!
Jerry

Anonymous said...

Miss Ladeva,

You must be so very tired of all of this by now. Please be as good as you can at resting up. Dave Ramsey (Financial Peace University) says, "You must live like no one else, so that later you can live like no one else." Be good now so you can be better later!

The Richardsons

Anonymous said...

DEAR LADEVA: I READ YOUR BLOG ABOUT THREE TIMES A WEEK TO KEEP UP ON YOUR PROGRESS, BUT DON'T WRITE VERY OFTEN, I KNOW. DON'T YOU JUST LOVE THIS SUNNY WEATHER WE CONTINUE TO HAVE? EAT, DRINK, LIE STILL AND EAT THAT CHOCOLATE---EVERYONE SHOULD GET SUCH "ORDERS" FROM THEIR DOCTOR! LOVE TO YOU AND WARREN. PEGGY AND KEN

Anonymous said...

HI SISTER!!!!
HOPE THIS IS A GREAT DAY FOR YOU. IT IS BEAUTIFUL HERE AND I HOPE THAT YOU ARE ENJOYING SUNSHINE AND PRETTY LEAVES:)
THINKING OF YOU, WISHING THIS WAS ALL BEHIND YOU BUT FOR NOW WE ARE HAPPY THAT YOU ARE RECOUPING AND ABLE TO ENJOY LIFE AGAIN.THE BEST IS YET TO COME.& THEN WE PARTY!!!!
LOVE TO YOU AND MR.UH... WHAT'S HIS FACE.
LOVE YA
djkz

Anonymous said...

Hi Deva, Okay kiddo, you've already had your lectures so I will just say that I am very glad the radiation is over and that I pray it will heal up quickly. Others have told me how miserable it is, so I'm praying that God will relieve the pain and you will be ready for them to remove the tumor as soon as possible. Have not heard anymore about Edna so trust that her health is better. Love to all of you and yours. And a great big 'GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU'
Ed and Ruby Lord.

Anonymous said...

Ladeva, you are in my prayers daily. I am so very happy that your surgery will be soon. As I read what others say it becomes quite clear that God is using you each day in many many lives. Your strength and love and courage shines like the harvest moon. Stay off your feet and do as you are told.....You are a beautiful woman and there are people like me from your past that love you dearly but just got caught up and have lost touch over the years. Keep the faith girl and let the Lord work in you as you relax and rest. Love you so ! Linda H

Anonymous said...

I called today to come visit no answer. Then I checked the blog. You are up preparing for your surgery. You are in my prayers LaDeva,! I will continue checking to see how you are doing. My love to you lady bug. I know you are held in prayer and the Lord is with you. See you after your surgery and some recovery. Love you Linda H