Thursday, February 23, 2012

Angels rejoice!

It is impossible to sum up the human experience in a few paragraphs. Perhaps a great philosopher could construct an eloquent summary, but when it comes to my Mother, they would fall short.
Today, around 2:10pm, the Saints and Angels rejoiced louder than ever when Jesus entered the heavenly realm hand in hand with Ladeva Ann Dahlin.
After four years of fighting cancer with dignity, style and grace, Mom once and for all won the battle and was rewarded by her Heavenly Father with a new body, free of ailments and began leaping and singing His praises. There are no regrets for all the pain that the last four years have brought, as out of this pain was born an even greater sense of thankfulness and dependence on a Sovereign God, that has poured out His mercies and lavished us with love and unity.
Last night, we sat around Mom’s bed as a family and shared in the most beautiful time of telling touching stories, quoting scriptures, signing hymns, and loving on each other and Mom. Though she was non-responsive, she was able to hear everything that was said. The evening was filled with loving and kind words, laughter, some tears, but mostly Praise. Her grandson Kale, played his guitar and sang a song to his grandmother that was a special treasure, not just to her but blessed us all.
At the moment of her passing, Dad was holding her hand, and he did not let go until the Bride-Groom Christ came and took her hand. Though we will always have a part of her in and with us, she is now His to have and hold from this day forward, for better, in richer, in health, for eternity. We rejoice in the sound assurance that we will one day be together with her again. Though we have sadness, it is not defeat, though tears we have joy, though loneliness a Comforter is with us. We will fight against the enemy, to overcome with the Spirit of God making a way for us in the long days ahead.
Please continue to pray, especially for my Dad, as he puts one foot in front of the other in faith. We will continue to communicate through this blog with information about memorial services, and other thoughts, trials, prayers, and joys. We will read the responses daily to Dad to bolster his faith, and bring him peace.
God Bless you for your kindness, prayer, and support.
“…we are of good courage, I say, and prefer rather to be absent from the body and to be at home with the Lord.”-2 Corinthians 5:8
Blessings-
Troy and family

16 comments:

Anonymous said...

My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God comfort your hearts today and bless you with endearing memories that your heart will always treasure. I will never forget this wonderful lady. She blessed my life, as well as so many others.
Sincere Love and Blessings,
Cindy R.

Jamie Raupp said...

It with great sadness I learn of Ladeva's passing. My interactions with her were mostly through Troy, but if the heart of a child is the true measure of a mother (which I believe it is), Ladeva was an unmeasurable success. I will always be grateful for Ladeva and Troy and the roles they played im my youth.

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry. God bless you all. I will keep you all in my prayers.

Anonymous said...

My prayers and thoughts are with you all. Praying for you all. God bless you. So sorry.
Love, Becky Dahlin Spalding

Anonymous said...

Someone said "earth has no sorrow that heaven cannot heal".Even though
I have never been to heaven I find
myself homesick for it today. That
is not so much because of knowing
that it is a wonderful place to live,
its because of the loved ones I know
that live there. Now I long to go there and am torn between those who
I love that are still here on planet earth and those who now reside up there. I long for that unbroken circle when we will all be there. At that time this temporary dwelling place that is
just for a moment will be no more.
We are pilgrims and strangers just
passing through. We are all on our way, on this journey. Some weary ones
have already arrived and are resting in His arms. For them
the race is over. The trials are ore.We who remain behind also wait
for that special time when God will
call us home. Monday, I had the privledge to go in a spend some precious moments with my sister Ladeva. I sang her a song and we
talked about how good God has been to us. She wanted to offer a "sacrifice of praise" to the Lord and did so. Kim held her arm up high as she praised and thanked the Lord. I remember her asking the Lord to let her die with a smile on her face so that all might know
that she went peacefully with the Lord.Even so, come quickly Lord Jesus, I want to be with Him and my loved ones eternally and it shall come to pass. Dino

Steve said...

Love you Troy! Your wonderful family too. Steve

Nancy said...

Warren & family, was so sorry to hear of Ladeva's passing but so glad she won't have anymore pain.Ladeva was a dear friend who I love very much.I pray that God will give you strength & peace.Love,Ed & Nancyt

Anonymous said...

IT IS HARD TO SAY GOOD BYE TO SOMEONE WHO HAS BEEN THERE FOR YOU SINCE BEFORE YOU WERE BORN. THROUGH JOYS AND SORROWS, PAIN AND JOY.NEVER MORE THAN A PHONE CALL AWAY.
HARD TO LET GO BUT HAPPY TO KNOW THAT OUR DEE IS IN THE BEST PLACE EVER AND FOREVER..AND THAT WE WILL SEE HER ONCE AGAIN..
THIS PAST WEEK HAS BEEN A WONDERFUL WEEK SPENT WITH DEE AND HER FAMILY.., FILLED WITH JOY AND TEARS, MEMORIES AND GRIEF..SUCH A MIXED BAG OF FEELINGS.. IT WAS SUCH AN HONOR TO BE ABLE TO BE THERE..
I WILL MISS HER FOR ALWAYS UNTIL I SE HER AGAIN...
LOVE TO YOU ALL..
djkz

Anonymous said...

Dearest Cousin Warren and Family,
Memories are like the hearts souvenirs, held closely by our abitity to love and be loved and appreciated by someone special. I believe there are some exceptionally beautiful people in this world, that are truly a blessing to us all who have had the honor of knowing them and sharing in their world. I have always appreciated the sweet shinning essence of Ladeva's inner beauty, a gracious spirit we will all miss, until we meet again. My heart and thoughts are right there with you through these difficult times. Please add me to your long list of friends, family and loved-ones who share in your loss. May God Bless and watch over all of you.
Love, Phil and Charlotte

Anonymous said...

Dear Kim and family,

I have told many "Ladeva" stories to all of my family told by you....
I have never met anyone that is such a loving example as Ladeva and always wanted to be able to imitate her beautiful ways......She will be so missed by everyone who had the great honor of spending time with such a selfless woman who loved her family so very much. May God continue to hold you close and keep all of you during this difficult time. with sympathy and graditude for having the privelege of knowing such a shining example of God's Love. Lina Jamison & family

Anonymous said...

thinking of you all and wondering how can this all really be true.
wondering where to start now.. how do you pick up the pieces and go on when your heart is so sad. when the empty spot is so big because a piece of your heart has left you and gone with dee.
how blessed i have been to have her for my sister and my friend.
i miss her terribly already and i will never be the same. because of her i am a better person and blessed for having had her in my life.
love.
djkz

Anonymous said...

We have all heard "The Lord gives, and takes away". I love the song that uses that phrase, and as hard as it is to sing it over the last few days, I have to remember what we all gained, by Our Creator giving us this beautiful woman that was created in His image. I am who I am, greatly in part to Ladeva. I have learned untold lessons, scriptures, songs, etc. and have first hand witnessed her LIVING OUT, the Word of God.
It hurts so bad, because she was so wonderful, but I would not have wanted her to be anything less than what she was to spare myself the pain. Because of her example, my wife and I are working to instill the same principles and precepts into our children and the legacy continues. We all ache for our loss, and that is okay because we have lost a great deal, but we gained far more by having her for the time we did than we ever lost.
The song goes on to say "my heart will CHOOSE to say, Lord Blessed be Your name". Let us all weep and mourn our loss, for it is substantial. Then let us raise our eyes to heaven, and praise the Living God that gave Ladeva to us all, and give thanks for His loving expression toward us through her life and bless His Holy Name.
This was a truly remarkable woman in pursuit of the Savior, and the one I had the distinct honor of calling Mom.
Troy

Julie Hunter Cole said...

Dear sweet Dahlin family,
I want you to know how very sorry I am for all of you. I have so many wonderful memories of spending time at your home, while growing up. I will always remember Ladeva's sweet smile and her LAUGHTER! I remember her gracious hospitality and her friendship to my parents. She raised wonderful children,of whom I also have such wonderful memories. What fun we all had...without a doubt, some of my absolute best memories! We may have lost track of each other in our busy lives, but I love you all and continue to lift you all up in prayer. I know our Lord will wrap His arms around you, comfort you and love you through your grief and sadness. Much love and prayers to you all.
Julie Hunter Cole

Stacie said...

Troy & Family ~

My heart broke when I heard that Ladeva had passed. We had wanted to come and see her but schedules and life took over. I will hold my last memories of her in my heart. It wasn't but a month or two ago and she still looked amazing and radiated that special spirit that was hers alone. I've been where you are. After losing my Mom 7 years ago it still hurts. We were so blessed to have such amazing women in our lives. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Love~Stacie, Jason, Makenna, & Makinley

Anonymous said...

Warren, Troy and family, Carmen and family and Kimberly and family. I was just now knew the 6th of March that sweet Ladeva went home to the everlasting Father. I live in Eningen, Germany and don´t always have my computer on. Ladeva was truly a living example of Jesus on this earth.It is hard to understand the why´s and how´s of Gods plan for our lives but we know with out a doubt that HIS plan for each of our lives is perfect.. My prayers for the Holy Spirit to wrap each of you in His arms of love and mercy and keep you always in the the peace and comfort that only can come from the Lord of Hosts.. Blessings to you and wish I was able to attend Ladeva´s memorial service but will call you Warren when I come to the States in July.. Take good care.. Jerry E. Galster

Anonymous said...

Troy and the Dahlin family
So very sorry for your loss- sending prayers of love and comfort your way.

Heather Love Brooks