Wednesday, November 30, 2011

An unexpected report.....

John 14:27 "Peace I leave with you, My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid."
Mom and Dad had felt confident about receiveing a good report yesterday from the cancer doctor. Mom is feeling good, and had no reason to think that there was anything amiss.
The Doctor's report showed that both lungs had tumors on them, 20 in all. There were two treatment options. 1) Medications could be administered that had the potential of extending her life, but the side-effects would be significant sickness. 2) No medication. This would allow Mom to feel good for a while without the side-effects of the medication. The Doctor stated that in their medical opinion, Mom was told that she could expect about a year to live.
After the initial shock of this news, Mom and Dad have made some decisions about how they will move forward from this moment.
1) God is still on the throne. Only God knows how many days each of us has left. He is in control and His will is perfect.
2) No matter how many days remain, live each one as the precious gift that it is! Love intensely, laugh often, Live for the Glory of God.
3) Give thanks for the blessings of family and friends. Spend quality time with them and make memories.
4) Enjoy all that life has to offer without dwelling on the struggles that come their way.
5) Speak boldly of the Eternal Life offered through Jesus Christ to those whom do not know Him as Savior.
To each of you who have been reading the blog over the past few years, we thank you for your outpouring of love and support. The Bible says that "You therefore must endure hardship as a good soldier of Jesus Christ". Mom and Dad will endure and will continue to fight the fight, not with a spirit of fear, but of strength and power, and sound mind. Your continued support will be cherished and a source of strength.
This story is not over. All of these things have happened so that the Glory of God may be revealed.
All our love,
Troy & Family

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

DEAR LADEVA,
I TO WAS EXPECTING A GOOD REPORT FROM YOUR DOCTORS. BUT THEY ARE ONLY MEN. OUR GOD HAS THE ANSWER TO ALL OUR PROBLEMS.IT WILL B GOD THAT TELL US WHEN HE WANTS US TO COME HOME.WE ARE ALL IN HIS HANDS. ONE THING I KNOW IS THAT HE LOVES YOU, AND LOVES ALL OF OUR FAMILY.I LOVE ALL OF YOUR FAMILY ALSO.SO KEEP LOOKING UP. WE WILL KEEP PRAYING.WITH, LOTS OF LOVE FROM JAN AND I.

Anonymous said...

Deva Dear,
You are so precious to all who know you. You have been God's ambasador in true fashion. Nobody could have served Him more relentlessly or faithfully than you. His reward will be awsome. We have all loved you so dearly for so many years--This must be a human error. We enjoyed talking with you a few days back.
Love and blessings - Jerry & Va xo

Anonymous said...

Diva my dear friend, I am here for you and your family if you have needs please let me know. This is another journey through life and you will continue on with love and compassion and your beautiful self! The Lord continues to work his miracles through you and your wonderful friends and family. God loves you as do I. Your forever friend Linda H

Anonymous said...

Mom,
Here are all the words to the song we were trying to recall last night. I love you, Troy
1. When peace, like a river, attendeth my way,

When sorrows like sea billows roll;

Whatever my lot, Thou has taught me to say,

It is well, it is well, with my soul.

o Refrain:
It is well, with my soul,
It is well, it is well, with my soul.

2. Though Satan should buffet, though trials should come,

Let this blest assurance control,

That Christ has regarded my helpless estate,

And hath shed His own blood for my soul.

3. My sin, oh, the bliss of this glorious thought!

My sin, not in part but the whole,

Is nailed to the cross, and I bear it no more,

Praise the Lord, praise the Lord, O my soul!

4. For me, be it Christ, be it Christ hence to live:

If Jordan above me shall roll,

No pang shall be mine, for in death as in life

Thou wilt whisper Thy peace to my soul.

5. But, Lord, ’tis for Thee, for Thy coming we wait,

The sky, not the grave, is our goal;

Oh, trump of the angel! Oh, voice of the Lord!

Blessed hope, blessed rest of my soul!

6. And Lord, haste the day when my faith shall be sight,

The clouds be rolled back as a scroll;

The trump shall resound, and the Lord shall descend,

Even so, it is well with my soul.

Anonymous said...

Ladeva tears are flowing down my face as I read this last rport of your doctor.. However, the FAITH of you, Warren and your family in the almighty GOD causes my spirit to rejoice with joy for the LORD is in control of all things in Heaven and on Earth and you are in His hands of love and mercy forever.. You and Warren have always lived your life of FAITH in GOD and raised your family in the same truth which is now your strength..Your testimony of life has made a impact on my life even though we have not had much contact over the years. I believe that God has and is using your testimony to touch the lives of many souls that need the touch of His love. Mere words will not be able to express how thankful Im for you and your family to allow us to be part of this journey with this blog as I know it had to be hard to share. My prayers and love always your friend Jerry E. Galster

Anonymous said...

We love you so much, Ladeva and Warren! So blessed to see you today and so moved by your testimony. Praying for you all and hope to spend more time with you soon!
Amy Spencer & family

Anonymous said...

HEY SIS,
GOD IS NOT FINISHED WITH THIS YET, DEE!!!
HE IS THE ONLY ONE WITH THE BLUEPRINT FOR OUR LIVES..
WE WILL FIGHT THIS STINKIN BATTLE TOGETHER WITH ALL THAT WE HAVE!!! I WILL FIGHT RIGHT ALONG SIDE OF YOU!
I WILL PRAY FOR YOU EVERY TIME I THINK OF YOU AND THAT IS ALL THE TIME!!!
MIRACLES COME!!! AND GOD WILL GET THE GLORY!!!!
I KNOW THAT YOU KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU..BECAUSE THAT IS HOW YOU LOVE ME TOO..
WE ARE ON OUR KNEES, LOOKING UP!!!!
AND I LOVE YOU.
djkz

Ruby Lord said...

LaDeva, our hearts are sad about this news but again are so thankful that 'to those that love the Lord, all things work out for the best'. He is in control and we know where are eternal future lies. We are praying for you and love you so much. Also praying for your precious family and just loving all of you through HIM!!!

Anonymous said...

Sending all of you a big {{{{HUG}}} and thoughts and prayers.
Becky Dahlin Spalding